• Book Reviews,  Columns

    Book Review: The Son of Mr. Suleman, by Eric Jerome Dickey

    By Terri Schlichenmeyer
    The Bookworm Sez

    “The Son of Mr. Suleman” by Eric Jerome Dickey
    c.2021, Dutton  $27.00 / $36.00 Canada 560 pages

    The sins of the father shall be visited upon the son.

    That’s what’s said, that a son pay for his father’s misdeeds, but maybe the old man didn’t intend to leave a negative legacy. Maybe he tried his best, but something went wrong. Maybe, as in the new novel “The Son of Mr. Suleman” by Eric Jerome Dickey, Pops meant well.

    Adjunct Professor Pi Suleman didn’t want to be at his employer’s event. He had better things to do, better places to be than a room at UAN, but his boss, the white woman who hired him, the wife of a powerful judge, demanded that he be there or else.

  • Columns,  Lee Lynch's Amazon Trail,  New

    Lee Lynch’s Amazon Trail: Old Stuff

    Photo by Sue Hardesty

    By Lee Lynch
    The Amazon Trail: Old Stuff

    All the words, all the tchotchkes, give me delight. Lately, though, this materialistic gay American has reached a time of appreciating what I have rather than collecting more …

    I spend too much time and space collecting die-cast toy vehicles, especially Matchbox, a few Dinkys and other locally hard-to-find brands. I’m no expert, am not a vehicle fanatic, I drive a seventeen-year-old Toyota, but the allure of these tiny replicas of vans, utility trucks, and homely cars, many bunged up and from garage sales, most covered with months of dust, bring me a ridiculous amount of pleasure.

    I love old stuff and old places. Nostalgia informs much of my work. My favorite school of art, photorealism, often portrays abandoned Esso gas stations, weathered clapboard houses, or bright-colored luncheonettes in the Bronx. Richard Estes and Ralph Goings capture Americana minutely. Among photographers, I can peruse books by, David Plowden, Bernice Abbott, and William Eggleston for hours.

    Jump to buttons. I don’t have a clue why buttons fascinate me. I’m far from a seamstress. But did you ever look at buttons, really look? The designs, especially from days of yore, can be intricate, unique, even genuine art. They sport an infinity of colors and sizes, signify rank, brand, and fashion styles. I have jars full of the things, but I’m pressed for time to let them cascade from my hands into treasure piles and may give them up. Some day.

  • Columns,  One Thing or Another Columns

    One Thing or Another: That Relaxed Fit Time of Life

    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    At sixty-two, not having to hoist my leg over a bicycle bar is a relief. I’m not worried about body parts, just about getting my leg that high.

    It hit me recently when I was out looking for a new bicycle. I told the young man working at the store that I was mostly concerned with comfort. I’m not trying out for the Tour de France, and I don’t imagine myself riding in that event, unlike many of the people I see zipping around the New Jersey countryside with brand names on their backs and Spandex hugging them more tightly than a human ought to be hugged. I’m just a guy who lives in the woods and wants to get my heart rate up a few times a week by circling the back roads of my rural community.

  • Columns,  Lee Lynch's Amazon Trail

    Lee Lynch’s Amazon Trail: Covid 19 Pioneer

    Photo by Sue Hardesty

    By Lee Lynch
    The Amazon Trail: Covid 19 Pioneer

    As a seasoned Polio Pioneer, sixty-odd years later, it strikes me as funny that I felt a little proud, just as I had in grade school, to be part of this mass health effort. There’s a bond now, between my neighbors and myself, that we went through the unknown together, that we believed in the science and the medicine and did our patriotic duty to keep America safe.

    Now that President Biden and Vice President Harris are in office, I’ve been able to have my first Covid 19 vaccine shot. It was no big deal. I went to our county fairgrounds expecting to be injected through my car window, the way I was tested. I thank my lucky stars the test was negative. I’m grateful to the medical profession that persisted in making tests and vaccines available despite the disinformation and profiteering of our former leaders.

    Turned out, the vaccines were administered in the same exhibit building that’s used for our winter farmers’ market, a very familiar and reassuring space. The six-foot tables that usually serve to display crafts or local mushrooms and goat cheeses, were now place markers.

  • Columns,  Dave Hughes

    Guest Column: Dave Hughes of RetireFabulously.com – 100 Ways to Enjoy Your Life for Less Money

    By Dave Hughes, RetireFabulously.com

    This article first appeared at RetireFabulously.com and is reprinted with permission. Join me for a conversation with Dave on next week’s One Thing or Another Podcast.

    Living a fabulous retirement – or enjoying your life at any age – does not necessarily require having a large amount of money to spend lavishly. It means designing a life for yourself (and your spouse, if you have one) that is happy and fulfilling.

    This doesn’t require a lot of money in many cases. On my list of 100 Things You Can Do After You Retire, 62 of those are things you can do for little or no money. Some might actually make money. It’s true that the best things in life are free; for others, there are discounts.

  • Columns,  One Thing or Another Columns

    One Thing or Another: It’s About Time

    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    Time is not so much an arrow as a comet we ride, streaking across the sky. We only think it drags because we’re on it, like riders saddling imaginary horses that stand stock still while the ground moves beneath us.

    The good news is that I’m old enough to collect Social Security. The bad news is that I’m old enough to collect Social Security. When I was twenty, I never imagined being forty. It seemed so far away from that youthful ground I stood upon with naive bravado. Then when I hit forty, I thought fifty would be the last milestone to publicly mark, quietly retiring birthday observations with the exception of a few close friends and family. And finally, when I approached the age when referring to oneself as a senior becomes culturally appropriate, I decided I could at minimum look forward to collecting a monthly stipend for my troubles. We should all be paid for getting old, at least those of us lucky enough to live that long.

  • Columns,  Dreamshaping,  One Thing or Another Columns

    One Thing or Another: Are We There Yet?

    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    This column was always intended to be lighthearted, even in its most serious moments. Sure, I look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all. I even ponder death now and then, since it’s pretty much the end point for all of us. Where we go after that, if we go anywhere, is not something I spend much time thinking or worrying about. I have appropriate clothes for any destination,  or none at all, in case it’s especially hot.

    But 2020 was so difficult, so groundbreaking, like a sledgehammer outside my bedroom window, that it stands unique among the years of my life. And now, two weeks into a new year, it’s still here! The same election we would normally have moved beyond by now, accepting it as part of the political bargain we make for living in a country where people are allowed to vote, keeps hold of us as if to prevent our escape. The frustrations of lockdowns and limited interactions and one-way grocery store aisles and the politicization of absolutely everything has us frayed within an inch of insanity. And that’s just Tuesday!

  • Columns,  Lee Lynch's Amazon Trail

    Lee Lynch’s Amazon Trail: All Along the Watchtower

    Photo by Sue Hardesty

    By Lee Lynch
    The Amazon Trail: All Along the Watchtower

    When it’s dangerous to represent the citizens who elected you—we need to pay attention. We need to acknowledge that anti-democratic power is quietly accruing and will lash out; will harm rather than protect this too-trusting nation.

    Oh, hell, what can I say at a time like this? Did we think they’d simply go away?

    When angry white criminals occupied the Malheur National Wildlife Refuge in Oregon back on January 2, 2016 and the seven miscreants were charged with federal conspiracy and weapons violations only to go scot free;

    When, in the 1980s and 1990s angry white Christians organized to legalize discrimination against their scapegoats-of-the-day, gays, in order to build a vast political machine;

    When a woman was killed by a white supremacist at the Unite the Right rally in Charlottesville, Virginia;

  • Columns,  Lee Lynch's Amazon Trail

    Lee Lynch’s Amazon Trail: But …

    Photo by Sue Hardesty

    By Lee Lynch
    The Amazon Trail

    But…

    The year 2020 wasn’t a total bust except for the hundreds of thousands of Americans who should not have died or have been permanently harmed by Covid 19. In the U.S., many lay those deaths and disablements at the hands of the greedy, power hungry 2020 administration and its followers.

    Personally, I’ve been taking inventory of the bad and the good with my sweetheart, and finding some surprises.

    Yes, over seventy-four million Americans voted to keep the traitorous officials in office, but eighty-one million plus voted to restore our democracy.

  • Columns,  Lee Lynch's Amazon Trail

    Lee Lynch’s Amazon Trail: One Dog at a Time

    Photo by Sue Hardesty

    By Lee Lynch

    I can’t save our democracy, but I can do a little good in the world. We are adopting a dog who needs a home.

    It’s been five years, seven months since our dog Bea died and we’re finally ready and able. I inherited her at age six. I lost her to my sweetheart soon thereafter, as those two bonded immediately. When they were together, Bea would growl to keep me away.

    We would not have brought another animal into the house in any case. Our cat Bolo had health problems. We, and the Vet, feared the stress might kill her. Bolo took her only pet status as her due. I lasted three weeks after she died and started looking.

  • Columns,  One Thing or Another Columns

    One Thing or Another: The Joys of Being a (Almost) Halloween Baby

    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another … a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    I’m reprinting this column as an annual tradition, knowing that the current pandemic has altered the reality it presents for all of us. But the fun of Halloween remains and its pleasures will return someday. Nothing can keep a good witch down!

    October has always been my favorite month. It’s the month when autumn really makes its presence felt, especially if you live where the seasons are discernible. (It recently went from air conditioner weather at the tail end of a relentlessly hot summer, to a sudden and unexpected freeze with a 30-degree drop). It’s flu season, which is always good for a sick day or two spent lying on the couch taking over-the-counter cold remedies that do nothing to stop you from feeling like death is close by. Honey, is the healthcare directive in place? You’re sure you’ve still got your copy? And how about the will? Can I change it by tomorrow? My sister forgot my birthday, I’m not sure she deserves the belt buckles.

  • Columns,  Lee Lynch's Amazon Trail

    Lee Lynch’s Amazon Trail: Nah, We Ain’t No Sissies

    Guest Column
    The Amazon Trail: Nah, We Ain’t No Sissies
    By Lee Lynch

    Photo by Sue Hardesty

    I have been resting. A strange activity for me, but I had no choice. I was so worn out, I remember promising myself that I would never hurry again as long as I lived. The first two of six weeks I mostly slept, or lay unmoving beside my sweetheart. Awake, I read thrillers, and when those books didn’t ease my mental and emotional exhaustion, in desperation I read Ann Rule, the master of true crime.

    So many people are afflicted or have died from what my sweetheart coined trump flu; so many people have died or lost their homes to the fires around us; so many people are suffering under the current administration; so many people are fighting the loss of democracy in the United States; so many people are victims of blatant and insidious racism—I feel like a sissy to have needed rest.

  • Columns,  Dave Hughes

    Dave Hughes of Retire Fabulously: 50 Things You Can Do During the Pandemic

    The following is reprinted with permission from RetireFabulously.com

    By Dave Hughes
    RetireFabulously.com


    The most popular article on RetireFabulously.com has been the mega-list of 100 Things You Can Do After You Retire.  After all, there’s no reason to be bored after you retire.

    Unfortunately, during the COVID-19 pandemic, some of those activities aren’t feasible because they involve interacting with groups of people in potentially unsafe situations.

    But don’t despair! The glass is still half full. Half of the things on that list are still doable during these stay-at-home, socially distanced times.