• Podcasts,  The Twist Podcast

    The Twist Podcast #159: Back from Break, Maricopa Madness, For Cryin’ Out Colton, and the Week in Headlines

    Join co-hosts Mark McNease and Rick Rose as we return from our April break with new takes on the news, listicles, the ongoing GOP insanity, and Bachelor Colton Underwood’s shameless shenanigans.

    Enjoy The Twist on Libsyn, iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart Radio, SoundCloud, Amazon Music, and TheTwistPodcast.com.

    Copyright 2021 MadeMark Publishing

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  • LGBTSR

    Spring Cleaning and Decluttering Tips

    I don’t limit my spring cleaning to spring, but it’s always a good time to clean and declutter, especially now that we can open the doors and windows! Below are some tips from Nationwide. You can read all 22 of them at their site. Some you’ve probably heard before, some were new to me (socks as dusting mitts?).

    From Nationwide.com:

    Spring has arrived – which means it’s time to get your home in tip-top shape. A good, deep spring clean-up is a tradition that not only promotes wellness by keeping your environment clean and organized, it also helps carry the fresh-start feeling brought on by a new year well into the summer.

  • LGBTSR

    May is Mental Health Awareness Month

    From the National Alliance on Mental Illness

    “Each year millions of Americans face the reality of living with a mental illness. During May, NAMI joins the national movement to raise awareness about mental health. Each year we fight stigma, provide support, educate the public and advocate for policies that support people with mental illness and their families.

    You Are Not Alone

    For 2021’s Mental Health Awareness Month NAMI will continue to amplify the message of “You Are Not Alone.” We will use this time to focus on the healing value of connecting in safe ways, prioritizing mental health and acknowledging that it’s okay to not be okay through NAMI’s blog, personal stories, videos, digital toolkits, social media engagements and national events.

    Together, we can realize our shared vision of a nation where anyone affected by mental illness can get the appropriate support and quality of care to live healthy, fulfilling lives — a nation where no one feels alone in their struggle.

    Help us spread the word through awareness, support and advocacy activities. Share awareness information, images and graphics for #MHAM throughout May.”

  • Blog,  Dreamshaping,  New,  On Dreamshaping

    On Dreamshaping: Nowhere to Hide

    Mark McNease

     

    Wherever I go, there I am!

    It’s an old adage, meant to be humorous but with a grain of truth  to it. The one thing I cannot escape is also the one thing I spend so much time attempting to flee: myself. My repetitive thoughts, my obsessions, my fixations, all playing out in loops that sometimes remind me of spools of yarn that have become entangled. Do I do this today? Do I do that? If I don’t to this, will I feel freer? What will bring me the simple relief I crave?

    Another common analogy is that nearly all of us possess – or are possessed by – a monkey mind. This one is self-explanatory: what is something monkeys are known for? Jumping! Limb to limb, restless, never ceasing to move. That is a good description of our minds. It certainly captures what I experience almost every day. And the more I attempt to stop jumping, to settle on one fragile limb and stay there, the more another limb grabs my attention and within an instant I’ve jumped to that one. On and on, hour after hour, day after day.

  • Book Reviews,  Books

    Book Review: Laundry Love: Finding Joy in a Common Chore, by Patric Richardson with Karin B. Miller

    By Terri Schlichenmeyer
    The Bookworm Sez

    “Laundry Love: Finding Joy in a Common Chore” by Patric Richardson with Karin B. Miller
    c.2021, Flatiron Books  25.99 / $34.99 Canada 185 pages

    Tomorrow’s outfit is on a chair over there.

    That’s where it’s been since you last washed it. What you wore today came from a basket and off a hanger, the shirt needed ironing, there was a tiny stain on the pants but who noticed? and you just bought new socks, so there’s that. Time to do the wash?  Yeah, but get a load of this: “Laundry Love” by Patric Richardson (with Karin B. Miller).

  • Columns,  Savvy Senior

    The Savvy Senior: How Seniors Can Learn New Technology Skills Online


    By Jim Miller

    Dear Savvy Senior,

    Can you recommend some good technology classes or online learning resources for inexperienced seniors? I have a computer and a smartphone, but my knowledge and skills are pretty limited.

    Tech Challenged Senior

    Dear Senior,

    There are many different technology teaching tools available to older adults that can help you learn new tech skills so you can better utilize your devices. Here are some good options to consider.

  • LGBTSR,  Restaurant Reviews,  Restaurants

    Restaurant Review: The Golden Pheasant Inn, 5 Emphatic Yums

    This review is reprinted from LGBTSr.com.

    By Mark McNease

    Restaurant reviews are based on a 5 Yum scale, 5 meaning put it on your must list, 1 meaning avoid at all costs. 

    The Golden Pheasant Inn
    763 River Road (Route 32)
    Erwinna, PA 18920
    (610) 294 9595
    Website: goldenpheasant.com
    Spend Meter: $$$$+
    Service: Excellent

    Another Sunday, another outstanding meal. I don’t expect them all to be this good, but when you go to the Golden Pheasant Inn you can count on the standards being high. Located in Erwina, PA, just about twenty minutes from our home in rural New Jersey, the Golden Pheasant is a nearby taste of excellence. My husband Frank and I rode there with our friends and neighbors Phil and Jim. We were going out with them regularly before the pandemic put a stop to life as we knew it. Now that restrictions are being lifted, spring has arrived, and we’re all vaccinated, it was time for another delightful dinner out, this time indoors.

  • Restaurant Reviews,  Reviews

    Restaurant Review: The Golden Pheasant Inn, 5 Emphatic Yums

    By Mark McNease

    Restaurant reviews are based on a 5 Yum scale, 5 meaning put it on your must list, 1 meaning avoid at all costs. 

    The Golden Pheasant Inn
    763 River Road (Route 32)
    Erwinna, PA 18920
    (610) 294 9595
    Website: goldenpheasant.com
    Spend Meter: $$$$+
    Service: Excellent

    Another Sunday, another outstanding meal. I don’t expect them all to be this good, but when you go to the Golden Pheasant Inn you can count on the standards being high. Located in Erwina, PA, just about twenty minutes from our home in rural New Jersey, the Golden Pheasant is a nearby taste of excellence. My husband Frank and I rode there with our friends and neighbors Phil and Jim. We were going out with them regularly before the pandemic put a stop to life as we knew it. Now that restrictions are being lifted, spring has arrived, and we’re all vaccinated, it was time for another delightful dinner out, this time indoors.

  • LGBTSR

    Dave Hughes of Retire Fabulously: Is Downsizing the Right Choice for You?

    Dave Hughes

    This article first appeared at RetireFabulously.com. Reprinted with permission.

    By Dave Hughes
    RetireFabulously.com

    Is Downsizing the Right Choice for You?

    As you contemplate your options for where you’ll live after you retire, you may be considering moving to a smaller dwelling.

    Downsizing might make sense for both financial and logistical reasons, but it might not be an advantageous choice in every situation. There are many factors you should consider in order to decide whether downsizing is right for you.

    Here are some of the pros and cons of moving to a smaller home.

  • LGBTSR

    Q Audiobooks: Conflict of Interest (Portland Police Bureau Series, Book 1), by Jae, Narrated by Abby Craden

    This week’s Q Audiobooks pick sticks with one of my favorite genres. Written by prolific lesbian romance author Jae, it features a workaholic detective (is there any other kind?) who falls for a psychologist. Will circumstances keep them apart, or can they overcome the obstacles, including crime? Fasten your headphones and find out for yourself in Conflict of Interest.

  • Audiobooks,  New,  Q Audiobooks

    Q Audiobooks: Conflict of Interest (Portland Police Bureau Series, Book 1), by Jae, Narrated by Abby Craden

    This week’s Q Audiobooks pick sticks with one of my favorite genres. Written by prolific lesbian romance author Jae, it features a workaholic detective (is there any other kind?) who falls for a psychologist. Will circumstances keep them apart, or can they overcome the obstacles, including crime? Fasten your headphones and find out for yourself in Conflict of Interest.

  • New

    Two (Count ‘Em, 2!) Kindle eBook Giveaways: Reservation for Murder, and Beautiful Corpse

    It’s no mystery I love offering complimentary eBooks from time to time, and April provides a great opportunity to spring into action with two free eBooks for five days. The following titles are available as Kindle giveaways from April 27 – May 1. Just click each title and and enjoy!

    Reservation for Murder: A Kyle Callahan Mystery

    It’s been several years since Kyle Callahan sought the help of a New York City therapist to overcome the trauma of his encounter with a serial killer, and just as long since his investigation into a teenage girl’s murder brought down the Manhattan District Attorney. He and his husband Danny Durban have decided to move away, to start a new life in the idyllic river city of Lambertville, New Jersey. They have friends there. They’ll have peace and quiet. They can leave the hustle and bustle and stresses of America’s biggest metropolis behind.

    They open a bed and breakfast, and soon discover that murder and mayhem are waiting to check in. There’s a writers conference in town, with big names and big egos heading for a clash—and a killing—of titans. No sooner has the ink dried on the guest registry than Kyle finds himself pursuing another murderer, this one closer to home than they’ve ever come. He enlists the help of his old friend and local resident Linda Sikorsky, once a detective on the New Hope, Pennsylvania, police force. The two of them follow one lead after another in a race against time until the shocking truth is exposed.

  • LGBTSR

    LGBTSr Celebrates 10 Years with a Comeback!

    Yes, it’s been a decade. I was a mere 52, contemplating whatever years immediately precede the golden ones, when I decided to launch a website dedicated to the over-50 LGBTQ audience. Not only have I left my 50s behind, but we officially added the ‘Q’ as our umbrella gets bigger and more inclusive.

    With a couple of extended vacations from LGBTSr.com, I’ve been doing this site for a decade. I’m collecting Social Security now. I’m a year from retiring from full time work (I will almost certainly work part time after that, but not in my current position). And I’ve written and published 10 novels of the mystery and thriller varieties