• Savvy Senior

    Savvy Senior: Why You Should Create a “My Social Security Account”


    By Jim Miller

    Dear Savvy Senior,

    I’m 58 years old and working on a plan for my retirement. I’ve read that I need to check my Social Security statement every year to validate its accuracy. How do I go about doing this?

    Planning Ahead

    Dear Planning,

    Checking your official Social Security statement every year is smart move to make sure your posted earnings are correct, which will ensure you get the benefits you’re entitled to. But most Americans don’t do it. In fact, most U.S workers have never even created a digital “my Social Security account” so they can access their statement information. Here’s what you should know.

  • LGBTSR

    Cat Talk Radio: Cat Tails – What Cats Are Saying With Those Flicks and Swishes

    Cat Talk Radio with Molly DeVoss and Co-host Dewey
    Cat Tails: What Cats Are Saying With Those Flicks and Swishes

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    Episode Description

    Our friend Kim Pierce sent in some great questions about how cats communicate with their tails. The tail is the cats’ “sign language”; a portal to what they are feeling. It communicates everything from contentment to terror. Learn what the different postures and gestures your cat’s tail is trying to communicate to you.

    About Molly DeVoss and Cat Behavior Solutions

    Cat Behavior Solutions is a non-profit 501(c)3 organization saving lives through innovation and ingenuity.

    This site, and the work of CBS is dedicated to reducing cat shelter surrender by correcting and preventing behavior issues in the home.

    CBS’ resources include: Cat Talk Radio’s weekly behavior advice/education podcast, an information rich blog and social media, virtual and in-home consultations, educational seminars and speaking engagements.

    Our vision is a world where every cat is treated with kindness and an understanding of its needs.

    With better understanding of the domestic cat (Felis catus) owners will be able to provide the environment and stimulation their cats need, thereby eliminating and preventing unwanted behaviors.

  • Podcasts,  The Twist Podcast

    The Twist Podcast #165: Vax Americana, Cheesecake Therapy, Designing Your Hellscape, and the Week In Headlines

    Join co-hosts Mark McNease and Rick Rose as we ponder America’s slide into madness, examine anti-vax hysteria, talk about cheesecake, nudist camps and more.

    Enjoy The Twist on Libsyn, iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart Radio, SoundCloud, Amazon Music, and TheTwistPodcast.com.

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  • Book Reviews

    Book Review: The Guncle, by Steven Rowley

    By Terri Schlichenmeyer
    The Bookworm Sez

    “The Guncle” by Steven Rowley
    c.2021, Putnam $27.00 / $36.00 Canada 326 pages

    What does a gay man who never wanted kids do when he suddenly has two of them?

    The situation you’re facing isn’t one you wanted.

    You had no wish for it; in fact, it’s a hundred percent the opposite. Not your circus, not your monkeys, as they say. So usually, you’d follow your instincts and run but this time, you surprise yourself by stepping up and taking ownership. Now it is your problem but, as in the new novel, “The Guncle” by Steven Rowley, that’s more than okay.

  • New

    ‘Palm Springs Noir’ Continues Series of Noir Anthologies from Akashic Books

    I’m delighted to say my friend and fellow mystery author Michael Craft is among the authors featured in this newest anthology from Akashic Books. (You can listen to my podcast interview with Michael HERE.) Michael is among the finest writers you’ll encounter, with a skill and delivery that make his name very fitting: a craftsman and a wordsmith whose writing you’ll want to savor. If you’re not familiar with his fiction, you can start now with Palm Springs Noir!

  • Books,  Featured Book

    Featured Book: ‘Palm Springs Noir’ Continues Series of Noir Anthologies from Akashic Books

    I’m delighted to say my friend and fellow mystery author Michael Craft is among the authors featured in this newest anthology from Akashic Books. (You can listen to my podcast interview with Michael HERE.) Michael is one of the finest writers you’ll encounter, with a skill and delivery that make his name very fitting: a craftsman and a wordsmith whose writing you’ll want to savor. If you’re not familiar with his fiction, you can start now with Palm Springs Noir!

  • Columns,  One Thing or Another Columns

    One Thing or Another: Comparatively Speaking

    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    Sometimes an ache or pain is just life reminding us we’re alive, and it’s time to get on with it.

    What is it about aging that has so many of us comparing aches and pains, as if we’re war veterans comforted by knowing we’re not the only ones wounded? Life can feel like combat when you’ve lived enough of it, and maybe the time simply arrives when the scars we have to show each other are the results of putting so many decades behind us.

    I remember hearing people the age I am now talking about knee stiffness, back pain, inflamed joints, and the malaise that comes with blowing past the time when dying young was an option. “It’s better than the alternative,” we say, assuming the alternative is a cemetery plot or an urn from the local crematorium. We console ourselves knowing we’ve outlasted and outlived so much, but the body knows better the prices we pay. Friends long gone. Parents a memory that somehow becomes more cherished with the erosion of time. The increasing effort needed to get into a car, climb a staircase, and some days just get out of bed.

  • Columns,  One Thing or Another Columns

    One Thing or Another: Comparatively Speaking

    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    Sometimes an ache or pain is just life reminding us we’re alive, and it’s time to get on with it.

    What is it about aging that has so many of us comparing aches and pains, as if we’re war veterans comforted by knowing we’re not the only ones wounded? Life can feel like combat when you’ve lived enough of it, and maybe the time simply arrives when the scars we have to show each other are the results of putting so many decades behind us.

    I remember hearing people the age I am now talking about knee stiffness, back pain, inflamed joints, and the malaise that comes with blowing past the time when dying young was an option. “It’s better than the alternative,” we say, assuming the alternative is a cemetery plot or an urn from the local crematorium. We console ourselves knowing we’ve outlasted and outlived so much, but the body knows better the prices we pay. Friends long gone. Parents a memory that somehow becomes more cherished with the erosion of time. The increasing effort needed to get into a car, climb a staircase, and some days just get out of bed.

  • LGBTSR

    An LGBTSr Reader’s Guide to Some Common Issues for Older Adults

    I’m always delighted when a reader of LGBTSr reaches out with an article or, in this case, an excellent annotated list of topics that our readers may find of interest. Thanks very much to Dan Hall for sending this to me.  – Mark/Editor

    Common Questions and Answers About COVID-19 for Older Adults and People with Chronic Health Conditions – From the National Foundation for Infectious Diseases, this guide should be a go-to resource for seniors who have questions about covid, including its prevention, emergency warning signs, and treatment.

    Seniors’ COVID-19 vaccine consumer guide – This article gives a great overview about the vaccine options. The bottom line: every adult should get one as soon as possible.

    Staying Fit While Staying Home: Exercise for Seniors in Quarantine – It’s important for all of us to try to stay active for the sake of our physical and mental health, even if we’re homebound. The ideas and resources in this article offer great suggestions for seniors of all ages and abilities.

    Financial help for older adults – This guide from the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau offers an overview of assistance options for seniors who have experienced financial hardship during the pandemic. It also provides links for further reading on topics like financial planning and fraud prevention.

    Reverse Mortgage Calculator – Many seniors are looking into reverse mortgages to help them free up funds for living expenses or healthcare costs, but it’s important to know what they involve so you can decide if they’re right for you. This tool explains in detail what a reverse mortgage is and helps you calculate what yours could be.

    Mental Health and Coping during the Coronavirus (COVID-19) Pandemic – During a crisis, it’s more important than ever to take care of mental health concerns, especially considering how much our emotional health may be impacted in such strange times. This guide will help seniors and others cope with stress, grief, and more during covid.

    Socializing in Place: Tips for Older People to Stay Connected and Safe – Social isolation is a bigger concern for home-based seniors than ever. These great tips offer ideas on how older adults can stay connected while remaining socially distant from their loved ones.

    Contributed by Dan Hall

  • LGBTSR

    Senior Planet Offers Virtual Fitness and Wellness Events

    Senior Planet, in partnership with AARP, offers a wealth of online events and opportunities to connect. You can find an extensive list of upcoming wellness events HERE.

    About Senior Planet

    Aging with attitude. Senior Planet from AARP harnesses technology to change the way we age. Our courses, programs, and activities help seniors learn new skills, save money, get in shape, and make new friends.

    Senior Planet is about much more than just the latest gadgets and apps and websites. Those gadgets and apps and websites are just means to an end: enabling older adults and people of all ages to come together and find ways to learn, work, create, and thrive in today’s digital age.

  • Savvy Senior

    Savvy Senior: How to Pick the Best Place to Retire

    By Jim Miller

    Dear Savvy Senior,

    My husband and I will both be retiring in a few years and are interested in relocating to a warmer climate but could use some help. What resources can you recommend for locating and researching good places to retire in the U.S.?

    Retiring at 65                                                                              

    Dear Retiring,

    If you’re interested in relocating when you retire, like millions of other baby boomers, there are a wide variety of books and online resources that can help you find and research a new location that meet your wants, needs and budget. Here are several to help you get started.

  • The Twist Podcast

    The Twist Podcast #164: Planetary Meltdown, BBQ Suggestions, and Our Super Gay July 4 Spectacular

    Join co-hosts Mark McNease and Rick Rose as we survive the planetary meltdown and offer up our annual July 4 gaytacular.

    Enjoy The Twist on Libsyn, iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify, iHeart Radio, SoundCloud, Amazon Music, and TheTwistPodcast.com.

    Copyright 2021 MadeMark Publishing

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