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The Weekly Readlines May 25
The Weekly Readlines (rhymes with headlines!) is a feature at LGBTSr offering news you can use every week.
Quote for the Week: “Until a drag queen walks into a school and beats eight kids to death with a copy of ‘To Kill a Mockingbird,’ I think you’re focusing on the wrong shit.” – Wanda Sykes
BIG CUP: THE WEEK’S TOP STORIESTina Turner has died at 81, and the world mourns the loss of a great.
In hopeful signs, several Florida cities are fighting back, refusing to cancel Pride events or ban drag performers from them. Meanwhile, Target has moved some of its Pride merchandise to the back of its stores because that’s what threats of violence can make you do – and they know it.
Governor Ron “Benito” DeSantis has announced his candidacy, setting himself up as the little stuffed arcade doll Trump will soon be blasting off the shelf. Perhaps the only entertainment value in any of this?
And the country teeters once again on the verge of default, held hostage by the usual Republican suspects to the surprise of absolutely no one.
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Rick’s Latest Listicle: Mer-Facts About Mermaids and Mermen
By Rick Rose for LGBTSr.com
Co-Host of The Twist PodcastMy best friend Leanza Cornett created and performed as the first Little Mermaid at Disney World, FL before she was crowned Miss America 1993. Recently, the live action version of the movie was released with Melissa McCarthy brilliantly playing Urusla. So here are my top 6 interesting facts about mermaids and their male counterparts.
6) The tourism board in Kiryat Yam offered a million dollars for a photo of a real mermaid. Something strange began happening in this seaside town in Israel in 2009 when one person than dozens of others reported seeing the same astonishing sight: a mermaid frolicking in the waves near the shore. Still no million has been given away.
5) How did this funny talk of man/fish begin? Scientists think that human-sized ocean animals like manatees could be the foundation of the mermaid myth. Manatees are definitely strange and mysterious creatures, and they could easily be mistaken for mermaids by someone who doesn’t know what they are. Right?
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The Twist Podcast #226: Vigilante Samaritans, Vichy Gays, and an Interview with Stephen Dolainski
Join co-hosts Mark McNease and Rick Rose as we consider the parable of the Good Samaritan, question the motives of the Vichy gays, and speak with Guided Autobiography instructor Stephen Dolainski.
About Guided Autobiography (GAB)
Guided Autobiography is a unique form of self-reflection that encourages and assists individuals in writing their life story. It is an interactive process that provides guidance and support from an experienced facilitator who helps the participant identify meaningful moments, themes, and values in their life and create a narrative based on these reflections. It allows for individuals to take ownership of their autobiographical process, providing them with the agency to share only those aspects of their life they feel comfortable disclosing.
Guided Autobiography is beneficial for both mental and physical health. Writing one’s life story can bring about feelings of greater understanding and appreciation of oneself while helping the individual recognize how far they have come in terms of personal growth. Through this reflective exercise, participants can gain insight into how experiences from their past have shaped who they are today and how trauma or loss has impacted their lives. Additionally, it can provide a cathartic release, allowing them to express emotions that may otherwise remain unspoken.
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Lambertville and New Hope Pride: A Rainy Day in Paradise
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With all the efforts being made in states across the country to force LGBTQ people into silence, out of public view, re-marginalized as outlaws whose very lives are once again being made criminal, it was beyond refreshing to walk in the Lambertville (NJ) and New Hope (PA) Pride parade. It rained all day long, which didn’t dampen our spirits. It was a big, wet, glorious day.
Some thoughts on Pride
Pride for LGBTQ people is not the opposite of humility. It does not come before a fall, but after rising from the weight of discrimination and hatred. Pride is not arrogant or self-serving.
Pride, for us, is:
Learning to love ourselves and each other despite the lies we’re told about ourselves.
Learning to care for ourselves and each other, despite having been abandoned by families and institutions.
Learning to be free, and to celebrate the freedom of others, whether they are like us or not.
Learning to hear the inner voices of kindness, encouragement, and daring, until they drown out the voices of condemnation, contempt, and mockery.
Pride does not mean we’re ‘proud’ to be something we naturally are. It means we reject the rejection, the bigotry, the scorn, the ridicule, the hatred of others, the self-hatred we’re taught from pulpits and state houses and governors’ mansions and laws meant to defeat us. Pride is the conviction that we won’t be defeated, and that we have nothing to hide.
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The Weekly Readlines May 18
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The Weekly Readlines (rhymes with headlines!) is a feature at LGBTSr providing news you can use every week.
BIG CUP: THE WEEK’S TOP STORIES
The terror from Tallahassee continues: Wilton Manors’ board of commissioners voted unanimously to force compliance of Florida’s anti-drag law for their upcoming Pride parade. There will be no queens on floats this year.Fallout continues from CNN’s clown hall, complete with its audience of hyenas, while right-wing extremists once known as the Republican Party celebrate it as a win.
A 3-judge panel of the 5th Circuit appears ready to reveal itself as the idealogues they are and limit or ban the use if Mifepristone. And mass shootings continued as a daily presence in American life.
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The Twist Podcast #225: CNN’s Clown Hall Fail, Single Serve Bathrooms, and the Great American Pickleball Divide
Join co-hosts Mark McNease and Rick Rose as we torch CNN’s clown hall fail, encourage the spread of single serve bathrooms, and consider the great pickleball debate tearing the country apart.
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Copyright 2023 MadeMark Publishing
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LGBTSr Now Includes Audio Versions of All Posts to Better Serve Readers (and Listeners!)
Click to hear audio version. Narration provided by WondervoxAI.
If you’re like me and your eyes aren’t always in the mood to focus properly, audio can be a way to make things more accessible. This is certainly true of those of us into our 60s and beyond. I’ve heard from readers who are visually impaired, or who have trouble reading fonts. Now I can offer them something that makes LGBTSr inclusive of our readers, and our listeners, too!
Every post, article, and news item will include an audio version. Simply click on the audio file at the top of each item, and enjoy the narration. I’m currently using my own venture, WondervoxAI, to provide the voices. The technology is exciting for a tech nerd like me, and the opportunities it offers to be more efficient and provide more service to various audiences is pretty amazing.
Fasten your headphones!
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Springing Into Joy: It’s Time To Plant Your Garden and Experience Nature’s Bounty
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By Mark McNease
The arrival of spring is a welcome sight for gardeners everywhere. After the long winter months, it’s time to get outside and start planting your garden. Not only can you enjoy the beauty of nature as new plants bloom but you can also reap the rewards of fresh produce in your own backyard! Planting a garden in spring is an ideal way to celebrate the season and experience all its bounty.
One of the best parts about gardening in spring is that there are so many different types of plants that thrive during this time of year. Vegetables such as tomatoes, peppers, squash, cucumbers and beans do especially well when planted early on in springtime. Herbs like basil, thyme and oregano will add flavor to whatever dish you decide to cook up with your harvest while flowers like roses, daisies and tulips will bring vibrant colors into any outdoor space.
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Bethlehem Steels the Show: A Day Trip to the SteelStacks, Wind Creek Casino, and the Historic Bethlehem District
Mark McNease
I had some awareness of Bethlehem, PA, mostly because of the casino, now called Wind Creek Bethlehem. But a friend recently told us about her visit to the SteelStacks, complete with a tour of the magnificent rusting behemoth of the Bethlehem Steel plant, and we decided to make a day trip of it. It’s only about a 50 minute drive from our home, so it was easy, and very well worth it. It was the perfect definition of a one-day getaway. We walked over 20,000 steps (each, not combined!), as we strolled along the walkway abutting the massive factory, headed to the casino, then back and over the river to the north side of Bethlehem. There is a south side and we’re saving that for next time!
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Savvy Senior: Best Dating Apps for Retirees
By Jim Miller
Dear Savvy Senior,
Can you recommend some good online dating apps or sites for retirees? I’m a 66-year-old widow and would like to find a new friend to spend time with, but don’t know where to turn.
Cautious Carol
Dear Carol,
Whether you’re interested in dating again or just looking for a friend to spend time with, online dating sites and apps have become an easy and convenient way for older adults to meet new single people without ever having to leave home.
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Hunterdon Land Trust Farmers’ Market Reopens at Dvoor Farm
Mark McNease
After a week of rain, it was a delight to get out in the Sunday sun. Planting in our garden could wait a few hours – first we had to hit the farmers’ market at Dvoor Farm for opening day. Bread, pizza, fresh produce, soaps! We were welcomed by a dozen local artisans and merchants, offering salves for the rain-weary soul. More vendors will come on board as the weeks pass, making this farmers’ market the local treasure it’s been for years. Stop by, browse, say hello, and support the Hunterdon Land Trust while you do!
The Hunterdon Land Trust Farmers’ Market is officially reopened at Dvoor Farms in Raritan Township on Sunday, May 7. After a long winter of waiting, you’ll now be able to enjoy fresh fruits and vegetables from local farmers as well as homemade goods from talented artisans, thanks to the Hunterdon Land Trust. Whether you’re in search of a weekly grocery shop stop or just looking for an afternoon stroll with friends, this lively marketplace has it all. Reach out to your neighbors and get ready for an incredible day filled with unique wares and delicious food – the Hunterdon Land Trust Farmers’ market awaits!
This historic farm is a popular destination for those looking to escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life and take advantage of what nature has to offer. Learn all about the history, attractions, activities, and amenities that make this farm so special. Explore the grounds with its picturesque scenery, visit the on-site store for some old-fashioned goodies, or join in one of the many events held throughout the year.
Whether you’re looking for a unique wedding venue, an educational opportunity for your children, or an escape from the everyday grind, Dvoor Farms has something for everyone. Learn about its history and discover what makes this farm one of New Jersey’s best-kept secrets. Enjoy all that nature has to offer by taking advantage of the many activities available at Dvoor Farms, such as the farm’s historic walking tour, hay rides and corn mazes, nature trails and fishing ponds. You can also take part in special events held throughout the year, like “Bluegrass Jams” on summer evenings or live music performances during Apple Picking Season. At Dvoor Farms, you can also pick your own apples and other fruits as well as buy fresh produce from the on-site market.
With a wide range of activities and amenities to enjoy, Dvoor Farms is an ideal destination for those looking to get away from it all. Whether you’re visiting for a day or planning an extended stay.
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The Twist Podcast #224: Supreme Court Corruption, Slaughter in the Produce Section, and An Interview with Dina Nina Martinez-Rutherford
Mark/Rick/The Twist
Addiotion Reporting by Android J.Join co-hosts Mark McNease and Rick Rose as we resign ourselves to the corruption of Clarence “Teapot” Thomas and the Supreme Court, consider the mass shooting craze sweeping America, and dig Rick’s interview with Dina Nina Martinez-Rutherford, the first trans alder for Madison, WI.
About Dina Nina Martinez-Rutherford
Dina Nina Martinez-Rutherford is an inspiring figure in the Madison, Wisconsin community. A tireless advocate for social justice and education, she has dedicated her life to helping those who are most vulnerable in the city. Additionally, Dina also works with local businesses to provide job training and employment opportunities for communities of color in Madison. Her leadership has been a beacon of hope for many marginalized people living in Madison, Wisconsin who are looking to make a brighter future for themselves and their families.
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Savvy Senior: How to Prepare a Will
By Jim Miller
Dear Savvy Senior,
I would like to make my last will and testament and would like to know if I can do it myself, or do I need to hire a lawyer?
Don’t Have Much
Dear Don’t,
Very good question! Almost everyone needs a will, but only around one-third of American have actually prepared one. Having a last will and testament is important because it ensures your money and property will be distributed to the people you want to receive it after your death.
If you die without a will (a.k.a. dying “intestate”), your estate will be settled in accordance with state law. Details vary by state, but assets typically are distributed using a hierarchy of survivors i.e., first to a spouse, then to children, then your siblings, and so on.