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    Transgender woman in England told to use disabled bathroom

    A transgender woman who regularly goes to the stadium in Poole, UK, was recently told to use the bathroom for disabled people following a complaint. From Pink News:

    Victoria Saxe-Coburg, 55, was watching a speedway event between Poole Pirates and Wolverhampton Wolves on June 8th when security staff told her in front of other fans that there had been a complaint about her. She was told that another spectator had complained about her using the women’s toilets and was told to use the disabled facility instead. Ms Saxe-Coburg, who transitioned 20 years ago and has been a speedway fan for 40 years, said she burst into tears. “I felt humiliated,” she told the Bournemouth Echo. “There were quite a few people nearby. I always stand in exactly the same place. I felt so humiliated and angry that I felt as if I had to go to the opposite side of the stadium.
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    Alcohol Mary Road to keep its name


    Meet me at the corner of Alcohol Mary Road and Rehab Street You’ll be relieved to know that Alcohol Mary Road in Greenwood, Maine, will retain its name, despite the effort of some residents to change it. Apparently named after a woman who produced alcohol to make ends meet (it doesn’t say if she was a bootlegger), the road is a point of pride with the community. From the Bangor Daily News: GREENWOOD, Maine — Selectmen voted unanimously Tuesday night against changing the name of Alcohol Mary Road, after hearing from an attorney for the Hertell family and from residents who said they enjoy living on the colorfully named road. Several Alcohol Mary Road residents rallied around the memory of Alcohol Mary and said they were proud of her alcohol-making activity during Prohibition. They said the road was named for her. Arthur Hertell was silent at the meeting as attorney Jennifer Kreckel explained the family’s case to the board. Kreckel said the family is tired of getting calls from people asking whether the road’s namesake was their grandmother. She wasn’t that person, and the question is an insult to Arthur and Edwin’s grandmother, who did live on that road and who was named Mary. “They’re not trying to tell you what to do with your town,” Kreckel said. “They hold her sainted in their memories, and to have Alcohol Mary associated with that is sort of a desecration of the memory,” Kreckel said. Nancy Dewing said she’s been living on the road since the 1970s and said Alcohol Mary was a historical figure and a source of pride.
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    Gays, grannies and grandes: Southwest pilot hates them all

    Yes, it’s not funny, and yes, I laughed when they played the tape of the Southwest pilot trashing his cabin crew as gays, grannies and grandes. You have to give the guy points for alliteration. From NBC Chicago: Southwest Airlines was once well known for hiring only female flight attendants and dressing them in hot pants. At least one of its pilots apparently dislikes that it’s not like that anymore. “Eleven f***ing over-the-top f***ing a** f***ing homosexuals and a granny. Eleven! I mean, think of the odds of that,” the unidentified pilot said during a March flight. He was talking to his co-pilot after take off from Houston about his attempts at having a nightlife with Southwest Airlines crew members laying over in Chicago, a city he called “party land.” The pilot labeled his Chicago-based flight crew as a “continuous stream of gays and grannies and grandes.” “So in six months I went to the bar three times; in six months, three times. Once with the granny and the f*g, and I wished I hadn’t gone,” he said.
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    Guns and gays: ATF hosts first Pride event

    Nothing says equality quite like alcohol, tobacco and firearms. From the Examiner: The Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives (ATF) on Wednesday sponsored its first Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Pride Month program at its headquarters in Washington, D.C. despite being embroiled in a controversial probe. As part of the program, Acting ATF Director Kenneth Melson provided remarks while Rep. Barney Frank (D-MA) served as Wednesday’s keynote speaker. The celebration was in recognition of the accomplishments and contributions of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans to ATF and the nation, and to promote awareness of the LGBT culture. ATF works to ensure sexual orientation discrimination and prejudice are not tolerated in our workplace, said Melson. “ATF is an equal employment opportunity environment where effective and equitable participation is encouraged. We are grateful that the Honorable Rep. Frank could share his experiences with our workforce as we celebrate diversity today,” he said. Congressman Frank spoke about his experiences serving as an openly gay congressman for the 4th Congressional District of Massachusetts and his rise to Democrat stalwart status. Continue reading on Examiner.com ATF hosts 1st Gay Pride observance despite scandal – National Law Enforcement | Examiner.com http://www.examiner.com/law-enforcement-in-national/atf-hosts-1st-gay-pride-observance-despite-scandal#ixzz1Q6UfPMQW
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    Cops seek port-a-potty perp at Boulder yoga fest

    Imagine going into a port-a-potty stall, never a pleasant experience to begin with, and there’s a face staring up at you from the tank. That’s what happened in Boulder, Colorado, during a yoga festival. The suspect slipped away. From the HuffPost: DENVER (Reuters) – Police in Boulder, Colorado were searching on Tuesday for a man who hid inside the tank of a portable toilet at a yoga festival, startling a woman who was using the facility. The bizarre incident happened June 17 at the Hanuman Yoga festival in Boulder, a college town northwest of Denver. The woman, who was not identified by authorities, said when she lifted the toilet seat lid, she noticed something moving in the tank, according to a Boulder Police news release. The woman exited the toilet and asked a man who was standing nearby to check inside. The man told police he saw someone inside the tank covered with a tarp.
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    Gay sports league in Oklahoma City open to all

    There’s been some hand-wringing the last few years about how many, if any, straight people should be allowed to play on gay sports teams. A sports league in Oklahoma City has resolved that issue by welcoming everyone. From News OK: By Carrie Coppernoll 2
    Published: June 22, 2011
    Playing gay softball all started out as the biggest group effort ever to find our friend a date. This Sunday, we wrapped up our fifth year playing in the Sooner State Softball Association. Our team has a record as bad as the Chicago Cubs, but our friend has a boyfriend. Our team name this year was Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, a tribute to hubbub about straight players in gay softball leagues. The North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance, also known as NAGAAA, limits teams that enter the Gay Softball World Series to two straight players per team. Some organization officials didn’t want teams to bring in straight ringers. Like me. [SNIP] But at home, anyone can play, league Commissioner Jim Knox said.
    “We believe that opening our league up to fair-minded people and having them play together knocks down stereotypes for both our community and the straight community as well,” he said. After five years, the core of our team is still straight people. Most are married. Some have children. The league assigns us a few extra players to fill our rosters, and most of them are gay people we don’t know.
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    Lytro camera promises digital photography revolution

    A friend clued me into this, and I immediately tought of lgbtSr contributor KJOY. We’re both photographers (hers is on the professional side, mine’s a hobby). It’s a lot to digest about this new camera coming out, but something to keep a shutter – I mean eye – on. From PC World:

    With a new kind of camera, Lytro wants to remove the headaches of focus from digital photography. Lytro, a start-up based in the Silicon Valley, hopes to revolutionize the camera industry by bringing “light field” cameras to the market this year. This type of photography captures the color, intensity and direction of individual light rays, allowing the user to refocus the picture even after it has been taken. Speaking to the Wall Street Journal, Lytro’s founder and chief executive, Ran Ng, likened the technology to a multitrack audio recording, in which each instrument is recorded separately and mixed later. A blog post on Lytro demonstrates the concept with an interactive photo. Clicking anywhere on the picture changes the point of focus, causing other parts of the scene to blur into the background. A picture gallery shows more examples. Lytro also claims that its cameras work in low lighting without flash, and can produce 3D photos with a single lens. “We have something special here,” Ng wrote. “Our mission is to change photography forever, making conventional cameras a thing of the past.”
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    Pulitzer winning journalist Jose Antonio Vargas comes out – as illegal immigrant

    In a stunning confession that fits with his Pulitzer Przie-winning reporting, gay journalist Jose Antonia Vargas has come out as an undocumented immigrant – in the New York Times! From the New York Times: I decided then that I could never give anyone reason to doubt I was an American. I convinced myself that if I worked enough, if I achieved enough, I would be rewarded with citizenship. I felt I could earn it. I’ve tried. Over the past 14 years, I’ve graduated from high school and college and built a career as a journalist, interviewing some of the most famous people in the country. On the surface, I’ve created a good life. I’ve lived the American dream. But I am still an undocumented immigrant. And that means living a different kind of reality. It means going about my day in fear of being found out. It means rarely trusting people, even those closest to me, with who I really am. It means keeping my family photos in a shoebox rather than displaying them on shelves in my home, so friends don’t ask about them. It means reluctantly, even painfully, doing things I know are wrong and unlawful. And it has meant relying on a sort of 21st-century underground railroad of supporters, people who took an interest in my future and took risks for me.
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    Chicago gay activist Roger “R.J.” Chaffin dies at 59

    From CBS Chicago: CHICAGO (CBS) – A renowned businessman and community activist in Chicago’s gay community has died at the age of 59. Roger “R.J.” Chaffin died this past Friday after a short illness, the Windy City Times reported. Chaffin was inducted into Chicago’s Gay and Lesbian Hall of Fame in 1997. At that time, he was described as “one of Chicago’s most visible gay businesspersons for more than 25 years” who raised thousands of dollars for AIDS charities. Continue reading]]>

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    Transgender woman sentenced to prison in Idaho bomb plot


    From The Republic.com:
    PAYETTE, Idaho — An Idaho woman will serve at least three years in prison after she planted fake destructive devices at her trailer home, set fire to her truck then ran naked along a rural highway last summer to draw attention to her struggle as a transgender person. Catherine Carlson, 53, was sentenced Friday in 3rd District Court after being convicted of first-degree arson, unlawful possession of a bomb or destructive device, and using a hoax destructive device. She was also found guilty of a misdemeanor charge of indecent exposure. A Payette County jury convicted Carlson in April. The Argus Observer reported that Carlson sat quietly as Judge Susan Wiebe ordered her to serve a minimum of three years for each felony, to run concurrently, as part of a maximum 10-year sentence. She was also sentenced to serve 180 days for indecent exposure. Wiebe ordered Carlson to reimburse the county for $1,500 in emergency response costs.
    Carlson will get credit for time served since her arrest in July 2010. About 50 homes were evacuated last summer after firefighters responded to a bogus report of a trailer fire and found pipes near a propane tank. The pipes contained no explosives.
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    Residents despair in Puerto Rico as killings increase

    We were just in Old San Juan two weeks ago on a cruise. I wrote afterward about the rising number of murders of LGBT people (18 most recently, at the time of the posting). The young waitress at the tapas restaurant where we had dinner told us murders were on the increase and it worried her. From the New York Times: LOÍZA, P.R. — As people strolled past the Alambique liquor store here recently, the puddle of blood and the bullet-shattered storefront behind it scarcely merited a glance. Yet another young man had been shot. Yet another tally would be added to the record books. For Roberto Clemente, who lives down the street from the crime scene, such casual acceptance illustrates just how deeply Puerto Ricans have been shaken by the island’s murder wave. “Enough is enough,” said Mr. Clemente, 59, who works for the town doing cleanup duties, as he motioned toward the liquor store. “We live unsafely in our homes. The cops know who did what, but there are no witnesses. Even if you see who did it, you stay quiet.” Now plagued by a steadily worsening murder rate, more Puerto Ricans are second-guessing their evening plans, contemplating moving to the mainland and sending away for gun permits in larger numbers to protect themselves. And the police are rolling out new strategies they hope will bring things under control.
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    Kjoy'sLife in the Sr Lane


    PART II: Priding as an SR does not mean keeping our dignity! Hi all sweet lovelies! My great Pride 2011 story continues from the first post . . .


    So my first blog was all about dealing with getting past our SR phobias – weight, wrinkles, and wondering where our youth went. Okay, it’s fine to cling to the past to a point, but it’s better to cling to your Depends or pads and dance the night away! No really! We do not owe the young hotties anything! If anything they owe us and our amazing predecessors, a dance! THESE womyn and men are my heroines/heroes. And some are SOOOO sexy to this day! The boys and girls today have no idea what it took to give them such freedoms. Okay. I’m off the soapbox.


    Dancing is better than anti-depressants: Okay, I lied and I promised I wouldn’t. I lied. Get over it. Truth is even I take these even-out-your-life drugs (thank you Dr. Jacobson out of Northridge Hospital. You are da man!), but it’s because I don’t get out and let go and sweat the sh*t of life out! Dancing is one of the best drugs – ever!


    I don’t care if you dance in the living room with no one around, ballroom, tango, or do your country’s traditional moves, just do it. I LOVE to just turn on the jams at home and groove (sometimes dressed, sometimes not! TMI?). I’m lucky that my wife Corinne, and the dogs, often join me to shake-it to trance to rock n’ roll (Concrete Blonde is her constant pick). We just imagine we’re on a dance floor and go.


    Try it, you’ll like it: Don’t think of what ANYONE thinks on your dancing style (lgbtSr blogger, Rick Rose, is the KING of letting it go!). Once you get used to letting it jiggle and dangle, roll, etc. you’re ready to finalize your Pride experience. As I said, for us, it was Mickey’s hands-down (have no idea if that mean anything to the boys).




    Mickey’s is always hot: As Weho Pride winded down, and the parade ended, the hot bods were everywhere. They chose to unwind at Mickey’s.

    When we got to Mickey’s it was already packed, but since it was Pride, instead being a reason to go home early and watch “Golden Girls” and “Will & Grace,” we sashayed through the throngs of passersby to Mickey’s where the thong’d go-go boys were grinding it and the dance floor called my name. Dancing Nazi let it go: Corinne and I danced until sweating, which was great for the pores, and being that I’m still in mynopause and having hot flashes on a dance floor, it goes unnoticed. Loved it!


    SRs hot ‘n workin’ it: As I looked around me on the dance floor I smiled at all the SRs groovin’ it to Mickey’s great DJs. No matter our ‘vintage moves’ we were workin’ the floor, getting looks of interest, and more you naughty-ones! For a short time we were young again, and lovin’ it!


    Recovery: the morning after: The next a.m. Corinne started her workday way early, and though she thought to not going in, somehow she pulled it together and drove-off into early light of dawn. I curled-up with the dogs and went back to sleep. When I did get up, I immediately downed Advil, drank water, and ate a light breakfast. It was only then, as my body fell back into its slightly overweight shape, that I felt the tightness of my back, the ache of swelling feet, and then screamed when I looked in the mirror at my face with mashed make-up (I looked like Alice Cooper) staring back at me.


    After the initial shock, I observed my “goth-esque” mascara on top of ever-increasing lines, and smiled. “Damn that was fun!” Later on in the day, Corinne texted me the same sentiment. We agreed that, though we’ve aged and slowed down, we took on Pride as if prizefighters and knocked-it-out. And now looking at the pictures I can truly say we were not alone. All those SRs I’d seen and met? I guarantee they rocked-it into the morning light as we did with a smile. Maybe next year I’ll go to the tanning booth. But then, maybe not. Til’ next time: Forget your age and go for it! I’ve learned this later than I anticipated, and lovin’ every adventure!
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    Photographer chronicles what typical gay men really look like

    What does a gay man look like? A lot of people who don’t know gay men, or don’t think they do, might base their reply on a TV sitcom character or some other portrayal prone to stereotype. Even those of us in the gay community have often had fixed ideas about LGBT people and what we look like, or what we think we’re supposed to look like. Photographer Scott Pasfield set out to do something very simple: take pictures of every day gay men in their everyday lives. From Gay in America: In this first-ever photographic survey of gay men in America, stereotypes are laid to rest and an intimate, honest picture of contemporary gay life is revealed through stunning personal portraits and narratives. Photographer Scott Pasfield traveled 54,000 miles across all fifty states over a three-year span gathering stories and documenting the lives of 140 gay men from all walks of life. At turns joyful and somber, reflective and celebratory, each narrative and image is an enlightening look into the variety of gay life in the United States.]]>